[想問] 怎麼看待約定這件事?
射手是怎麼看待約定的?
我家射男看到不錯的餐廳,會跟我說下次帶我去吃,我就開始期待他什麼時候要帶我去吃,等著等著就沒有下文了,問他記不記得,回說記得,可是就是沒有動作。
約好出去玩也是,總是去不成,除非我說哪天要去才會成行。
我跟他則是相反,答應的事會盡量去做到,所以他每講一次,我期待一次,卻失望收場。
我跟他反應過,還是一樣。
是我太在意這種事嗎?
抱怨一下,交往第二年他主動提說要訂餐廳慶祝,被呼嚨好幾次的我本來沒放在心上,直到他跟我說是哪間餐廳後,才驚覺這是真的!
花了兩週找衣服,也麻煩朋友幫忙找。隨著日期一天天接近,他沒再提到慶祝這件事,我才知道又沒有了…
這件事我難過好久,也記得好久(煙
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我忘記細節是怎樣了,只記得有提到我不喜歡期待之後失望,期待越大失望也越大,希望他開支票之前能想一想可不可以做到。
他好像有提過沒成行是因為我沒開口講哪天要去。
我的方式是我講我就去規劃行程,跟他的模式不同,所以無法理解他講的話……
我的方式是我講我就去規劃行程,跟他的模式不同,所以無法理解他講的話……
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※ 編輯: onlyforptt (42.73.216.81), 03/29/2017 10:51:58
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他好像有提過沒成行是因為我沒開口講哪天要去。
但我問他,可是瑞凡,說好要慶祝的餐廳呢?他沒回應(攤手
※ 編輯: onlyforptt (42.73.216.81), 03/29/2017 23:48:00
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