[問題] 大家對友情的概念是...
看板RIPE_gender作者hif0327 (dating in the rain)時間8年前 (2015/11/17 21:21)推噓17(17推 0噓 49→)留言66則, 15人參與討論串1/1
考慮了好久 終於決定po上來
三十好幾已經結婚有小孩的女人
是不是比較難維持友情呢?
尤其又是專職的家庭主婦
生活重心是總是以家人為主
鄰居也只是聊八卦和小孩功課的對象
學生時代和職場的朋友幾乎都沒聯絡了
因為也沒甚麼共同話題
以前年輕時總覺得交朋友很容易
很快就能聊得來 一群人出遊的日子也曾有過
偶爾翻著昔日的照片 總懷疑自己怎能笑得那麼無憂無慮
就在這個月初 我參加了二十幾年好友的婚禮
這場婚禮是她人生的另一個開始
卻也是我倆友誼的結束
跟她是好到以前的荒唐事蹟你全知道甚至有參與
但中間幾年沒聯絡(因為我們的生活是天差地別)
知道她要結婚 當然非常高興
但她卻看到你好像就會想起以前的種種
甚至怕你會破壞了她這份得來不易的幸福
然後越來越冷淡 直到發覺她已經不再是以前的她
本來世界上就沒有甚麼是永恆不變的 更何況是人心呢?
當年紀到了一個砍站 學會放手是很重要的
跟老公說決定放生她了 回答是不可置否
因為他不太了解女人的友誼還滿複雜的
不知道各位熟男熟女們 也有跟我相同的疑問呢?
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