[生活] 圓融
Hi~大家
自從上次po的自介文之後
我已經從輕熟變成了完熟
一下子就跳了快兩個年
但是呢
成熟應該是要變得更圓融
完熟了還學不會圓融應該怎麼辦
大家都是從何時開始變得圓融的呢
原po 28
工作約莫六年多
但是還是看不慣職場的一些小事
最近跟工作上的學長有所衝突
該學長相當機歪
仗著年資跟重要系統在手,態度高傲不可一世
小菜鳥們問個問題就免不了被洗臉一番
要嘛就是語氣不耐煩的說 就這樣啊、就那樣啊
要嘛根本是看你一眼接著翻個白眼當作沒聽到
被他莫名其妙兇了幾次
我的脾氣也壓不下來
和主管說我無法與之共事
這事就這樣上呈到主管的主管上頭
該學長也被約談
之後開會 主管提到這件事
就說學長要照顧新人 新人也要尊重學長
像xx之前也和學長吵過啊 現在大家不都是好朋友
所以沒事啦~~
學長:xx才不像某人會去背後捅別人
我:要捅你不用背後,我正面照捅
學長離開會議室以後,其他同事們開始勸我
說他個性就這樣啊,不用太在意之類的。
但我真的很生氣。
幾乎每個同事都曾被他的情緒化和自以為是的態度攻擊過。
為何每個人都摸摸鼻子選擇沉默
有同事的想法非常成熟
她說 兇就讓他兇啊 反正學到東西的是我
只是要怎麼樣才能對無理取鬧的人視而不見
為何態度想法越不OK的人
周遭的大家對他們的容忍度反而越高
就只是因為:他個性就是這樣 嗎??
但明明他的個性是有問題的啊
為何要矯正的不是他的個性
而是周遭的人去調整容忍度呢
好的,一不小心就是一篇非常長的抱怨文了
回到主題是大家是何時開始變得圓融的呢
或者,有沒有辦法不圓融的變得成熟??
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