[問題] 獨居老人或晚年住養老院的最主要成因
大家好
我不知學術上是否有討論獨居老人的成因,或老了住進養老院的原因探索
只想問問大家看法...
是否沒走入婚姻或沒另一半(即無男女朋友)的人,到老死若都維持單身的狀態(無論
是主動保持單身或被動的被挑剩),以機率論, 是否比有伴者晚年成為獨居老人,或晚年
住進養老院的機率高出許多?(一般而言)
另一個問題是,那些年輕時有伴侶(含男女朋友),中年喪偶或離婚(四十幾歲,算中年吧),
而晚年最後是孤單一人,根本沒賺到, 這在台灣的比率有多高?
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p.s.人家常說結婚或找對象是找"老來伴"--這伴呢,愈老愈重要...至少晚年時有人
陪你講講話,這裡痛那裡痛時,有人可以哀號訴說...假如終生有伴的人晚年成為獨居
老人或住進養老院,很孤單的比率,和那些一輩子單身的人差不多...那我們單身者還怕
什麼呢?
我個人不是怕沒結婚,是怕老的時候,孤獨終老以死,一個人住在公寓成為獨居老人
或住進養老院(很爛那種的),被不盡責或沒耐心的看護虐待...我是怕這個...
結婚是雙方互相挑選的必然結果,完全非自己所掌控.經常在想, 如果沒結婚的晚年悽慘
的比率顯著高出許多...我就得硬著頭皮,找個對象...不管多辛苦...
(請勿筆戰,並把本文重點鎖定前兩段,謝謝)
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