[生活] 愛比較難道是人的天性嗎?
有時總覺得人與人之間喜歡比較似乎是個天性,且可以說,
人們對週遭的人事物是否滿足,並非旁人的感受,而是自身的主觀認定,
那種主觀認定的滿足感,常常也都是比較得來的.
打個比方好了,某人35歲工作穩定,年薪約100萬,
旁觀者可能會認為年薪破百屬高收入階級,甚至會投以羨慕眼光,
但對他個人來說呢? 恐怕未必如此,假如公司內有某某同事,比他年輕,
錢領得比他多,可能就不是這麼一回事了,也許他正為了跟旁人比較下'偏低'的薪資水準
正想隨時找機會跟公司上面的主管,人資好好槓槓呢,抑或是某位28歲人妻,
已經結婚生孩子,且跟同齡老公雙雙都在待遇令人稱羨的外商公司服務,
兩人年收加起來超過250萬,年紀輕輕就有能力在台北市買房,買兩台車,
還能給自己小孩過得比一般小孩優渥,可如果前幾天,
她才跟一個嫁給某企業第二代的大學同學喝下午茶的話,就不是這麼一回事了,
可能回家後就是一堆的悶氣,也許會羨慕對方家庭即便在台北也能住豪宅,
也許會羨慕對方光是一個月可以隨便開銷30萬以上,比她的家庭一個月賺得還多,
甚至會羨慕對方可以嫁到這種完全不用擔心錢的家庭,可以整天在家帶小孩喝下午茶,
反觀她跟她老公高薪是高薪,可整天還要擔心工作壓力與裁員.
'人比人氣死人'這話沒錯,也叫大家很多事看得達觀一點,只是,
人總是透過相互比較的主觀意念來滿足自己心靈下,又有多少人可以做得到?
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