[閒聊] 流產假中被小主管問候
前陣子因小產在家休養一個月,
突然的狀況也瞭解同事必需分擔我的業務,
實在對他們感到抱歉,
所以line一直是處於可接訊狀態,
怕同事找不到資料可隨時問我,
不過大家大多數是傳送問候的用語,
我當然是請大家不要為我擔心,
說明一切都好。
雖然已經一陣子的事了,
想到其中小主管傳的一些訊息,
卻是讓我覺得很不舒服,
小產手術後第2天:休假還好吧!會不會太閒?
隔一週某個晚上:休假還愉快吧!我們這裡大家都還在加班,忙著.....(初判原本應該我
的業務,雖然我覺得並不是什麼大事),又累又餓...
諸如此類的。
我看了訊息當下只是想翻白眼,
心想又不是休假出去玩有啥好愉快的,
不過想到同事真可能都還在加班,
所以沒有直白回嘴,
以打哈哈的方式或貼個圖或說辛苦了回了回去。
不知是剛經歷小產讓我心情連帶影響
變得比較敏感還是怎麼的,
我現在一看到這位小主管就想到他的問候,
然後就一陣反感,覺得很不舒服,
先生說是我小題大作,認為這主管只是有點眼睛白而已,
我細想後卻是深深感受到他對女性的不尊重,
流產假跟產假本質上都是娩假,
一般人應該鮮少問候剛生完寶寶在做月子的女性"你會不會太閒",
難道流產假沒有寶寶好照顧,
就要被人感覺很閒、在家很愉快嗎?
現在半夜醒來,
ㄧ想到天亮去上班就要看到這位主管,
都覺得心情好差,心一直解不開,
這樣的感受,
如果向機關的性平委員會之類的陳述是不是真的太誇張?他們會理我嗎?
我只是想聊聊,想知道我是不是太偏激,並不是想真的成案,
唉唉~
純發洩啦!
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