[教養] 有更好的教養方式嗎?
女兒剛滿4歲小班
今早大概是起床氣
我要拿衣服幫她穿
她就故意"哼"然後撇過頭
我說"妳不要我幫妳穿那妳就自己穿"
然後我就轉身要走
才走三步
女兒就邊哭邊跳說"要~我要媽媽穿!"
我說"好,那再給妳一次機會,妳自己來我這裏我幫妳穿"
然後女兒就繼續鬧"不要~媽媽來這裡穿"
因為女兒常常這樣
鬧脾氣時拒絕別人
人家走掉了才又要求再做一次剛剛的事
我不想養成她這種壞習慣
所以堅持她自己過來我才給她機會
結果僵持了一會兒她過來了
穿到一半她還是不爽
就用手揮了我一下
我就生氣了"妳怎麼可以打媽媽?
我幫妳穿衣服妳還打我,那妳還是自己穿吧"
然後女兒又開始哭鬧
我就準備收拾出門上班
一邊提醒她"妳趕快趁我下樓前穿好,
不然我就要出門不等妳了,妳就讓爸爸載去學校"
女兒還是顧著哭鬧沒動作
還一直說"再給我一次機會"
但是我還是出門了
過程中心裡很掙扎
女兒平常都蠻能溝通的
但是遇到情緒來時真的不知道她的毛要怎麼摸...
當下我還有上班時間的壓力
又覺得不能妥協不然養出公主
又怕這樣強硬她會不會有陰影...
如果是各位會怎麼做呢?
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