[教養] 和四歲女兒相處得很累..
和剛滿四歲的女兒最近都沒辦法相處
每件事都反對或者鬧,比如以前洗手都可以好好洗,現在喚她去洗手就摸半天
喚了好幾次都當作沒聽到,等到最後我有點生氣了用比較強硬的口氣(沒有大聲)
又馬上哭。吃飯也是一樣,在幼兒園明明都可以自己吃,之前在家也吃得還可以
但是最近都會邊吃邊玩,還會說「我先吃一口、去玩一下、再來吃」
吃飯可以吃到1個半小時,好好跟她說都沒有用,到最後也是一樣兇了一點說要把碗收了
然後就又哭。喚她去上廁所也是一樣,之前都會自己去上,最近常玩到來不及,
所以我就會提醒她,但是都沒用,每次都提醒了十分鐘才拖拖拉拉地去上廁所。
實在不知道該怎麼辦?明明都是她之前會做的事,現在都要一再提醒
我跟老公討論,老公卻覺得「小孩本來就是這樣」,還說「不必你提醒還是小孩嗎?」
可是真的是這樣嗎? 是我太沒耐心了嗎? 這樣一直不斷催促提醒真的是正常的嗎?
覺得好沮喪,明明都沒事,卻每天都和她相處得好累。該怎麼辦呢?
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