[閒聊] 大家會喜歡不是很熟的人跟你講私事嗎
之前在打工單位有位一起做事的學弟
某天我一如往常的做事,學弟進來了
一開始兩個人都沒說話,突然學弟打破沉默
學弟:我奶奶得癌症了,只剩3個月
聽到這句話的當下我都不知道該怎麼回
我只能低著頭說是喔,安慰說加油
我跟學弟的關係大概只會講講工作上的閒聊
很想講到私事,沒想到一下就跳這麼深
以我的立場來說,我會不喜歡講自己家人如何如何
或許說出來是和對方分擔煩惱,不過我的話我會選擇沉默
因為我認為對不熟的人講太多沉重的私事會造成人家困惱
而且看待一個人的角度也會有先入為主帶入(ex:她是單親家庭,她爸爸如何如何等等)
大家怎麼看呢
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