[疑問] 天秤真難搞!
我有一個秤男朋友,很曖昧,但始終就是沒在一起!
前陣子對他有些不爽,跟他講話的態度有點差,他一直打來問我怎麼了
本來這只是我的小情緒,可能過一陣子就沒了,
偏偏他一直問,就是要逼我說出口!
不得已我只好把不爽他的緣由說出個大概,
沒想到該秤男還是完全沒了解我不爽的點,沒有反省自己倒是回了一堆反駁的話
讓本人蠍女我更為不爽!
所以我當初就不想講!現在講開了怎麼好像變成是我在無理取鬧了?
秤男說他的心思非常細膩,但是就我的觀察
所謂的細膩根本只在於別人對他的態度,他很容易受傷
但是對於他自己傷到別人,卻一點知覺都沒有!
他的口才又很好,好到黑的都可以說成白的
聽完他的反駁,只是讓我心情更差,一點都沒有化解我的情緒
若是真的要講到他懂,恐怕連朋友都不用當了
本人的老媽跟該秤男同月同日生,突然覺得天秤怎麼都這樣!
發生事情錯的都是別人,都是別人傷害他們,
有時候面對天秤真是有理說不清,太難搞了!
後來想在FB上套話,問秤男到底為什麼這麼關心我,也只是換得一張好友卡...
媽,我被男生發卡了.................
氣死我了!!!!!
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其實我真的很想跟他好好溝通我不高興的原因...
有沒有什麼話術是天秤可以接受,然後又不會讓他惱羞成怒的啊?
或者有什麼安撫的方式嗎?
我還想繼續跟他當朋友,但是我擔心秤男現在可能已經嚴重失衡了= =
恐怕也不會給我好臉色= =
※ 編輯: h2238lady 來自: 220.131.156.134 (03/23 21:49)
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後來我傳FB訊息給他,告訴他我是一個什麼樣的人
然後解釋之前沒跟他分享心事的原因
本來他沒回,隔天我FB打出有點哀傷的狀態
秤男就回我了「那沒什麼 別想太多」
所以這樣應該是氣氛轉好的意思了吧? > <
其實我知道他真的很關心我.....
※ 編輯: h2238lady 來自: 140.122.28.77 (03/25 22:47)
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