[問題] 獅男同事不讀不回
其實這應該屬於職場事件,不好意思打擾大家了!
但根據我的觀察,同事應該是非常典型的獅子男
請版友給我一些意見,該如何破冰?謝謝大家~~~~~~!!
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上星期五,A女助理不假外出,事先有通知我跟獅男會晚點進公司,但未說原因。
之後我的老闆問A女去哪,在我不知道的情況下,獅男告訴老闆:A女是去幫我辦事情;
隨後獅男通知A女此事,A女就順水推舟告訴她的直屬上司,她是去幫我辦事情。
於是星期五當天我就同時被我的老闆跟A女的老闆雙重質詢此事,顧及種種原因,
我並沒有揭發A女的行為,老闆們也並沒有為難我,只跟我說下次要注意工作排程。
之後我分別找A女跟獅男談,A一直跟我道歉,我接受;獅男雖沒道歉,
但他也說了下次不會沒問過我就擅自聯想。其實我與獅男談的過程氣氛不是很好,
我脫口說出「你跟助理還真有默契」這種酸話,後來我有事就先離開,
隔天下午才進辦公室。
然後我就發現,獅男開始把我當空氣。
後來傳Line給他,希望能把話說開,但獅男也已三天未讀。
我必須承認,其實我對獅男是有好感的,但觀察到他應該對我沒意思之後,
我也很克制,應該未做出破壞同事關係的言行,在這件事發生之前我們相處也很好,
是可以互相學習、一起成長的良性關係,不論在哪個層面來說,我都很珍惜我們的緣份。
但是現在他忽然翻臉,除了讓我不知所措之外,也不知道原因為何,
希望版上大大給我一些意見,揪竟是哪個環節出了問題?我可以做些什麼融冰,
或只能交給時間,等他氣消?(雖然我不知道他在氣什麼...)還是就乾脆轉身離開?
文長,很謝謝大家!感謝:-)))))
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