如何幫助朋友
事情是這樣的,前陣子我朋友(男)跟他女朋友吵架,因為女朋友跟他鬧分手,他似乎心生不滿,因此在當下就罵了女朋友(罵了一堆髒話……有些還沒聽過),女生被嚇到了,就不理他。
後來我朋友跟我說他用另一支帳號去試探女生,結果女生說她跟我朋友只是玩玩,後來我朋友又罵了那個女生。然而就在最近又莫名其妙的複合?!老實說,我朋友還蠻喜歡那女生的。
但是,我擔心的是,如果我朋友的脾氣再不改,許多人會因為他的脾氣而不敢跟他做朋友,而且如此鑽牛角尖,去試探他人,人家不被嚇死才怪,他是我國中同學,我認識他的時候,我覺得他還好,更深入與他做朋友時,才發現他可怕的一面,有一次,我不知道我得罪他什麼,就被他打到流血,班上同學也被他嚇到,也不太想與他靠近,還有一位跟他很好的男生,也只是因為乒乓球打歪,飛過他的頭,就被他用乒乓球拍打,除此之外還有很多類似的事。
可是他很想改變,卻一直再重複做相同的事情,然後就用電腦麻痺自己,打電腦打到自己都已經精神分裂都還不知道(所謂的多重人格),沉默於二次元世界,不想面對現實,說什麼二次元世界才是最完美的……,最近又跟我說在學機器的語言,想把自己輸入到電腦裡面去,我聽了只能搖頭,以前的朋友也覺得他瘋了。而且,他喜歡很多人(喜歡很多人很正常),他同時也愛很多人(戀愛),要說司空見慣嗎?不如說連我都覺得有些超過了(他的性向很正常)。
我上面敘述有點亂,但這是我認識他的狀況,我想讓他知道世界的美好,不要沉迷與虛擬的世界,並且很希望他不要再去傷害到其他人,我應當如何勸他,幫助他?
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