[問題] JJ太固執的個性
我25歲 獅子座A型
她35歲 天秤座AB型
我這個JJ似乎因為從小到大養成的獨立生活習慣
再加上向來都是被男性朋友捧在手心上,感覺有點被寵過頭了
她腦袋轉很快,很有自己的想法,但個性很急,情緒表達都很直接
只要碰到問題,情緒一起來,她習慣的說法就是"我的個性就是這樣阿"
沒有人可以改變她,要碼不是離開,要碼就是習慣她
但從以前到現在,每一任都是她主動提分手,也就是說決定權全部都在她手上
有一次跟她半夜聊天她聊到哭,她自己也知道這樣不好,還說她其實很多時候都在騙自己
但說歸說,真正要改變又是另一件事
她是那種可以跟我聊很深的人,我很喜歡跟她一起相處
可是一但碰到問題,就算是她不對,她也會仗著自己的個性說,老娘就是這樣
處理這種問題,用強硬的說法罵醒她沒用,我試過很多次了,失敗
硬碰硬只會吵架而已,對溝通沒有幫助
如果以退為進,我怕只會再繼續縱容她而已,沒有任何改變
請問我該怎麼做呢? 我想了很久,無解阿
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