[問卦] 你媽對你親情勒索,逼你做不想做的,你會?消失
我堂哥常常被他媽親情勒索,
常常以"我是你媽" "我是為了你好"為理由,
強迫我堂哥做一些他不想做的事, 或者強迫他不許做他想做的事,
前者例如:
1.私下去幫堂哥算命, 依據算命結果嚴厲禁止我堂哥吃牛肉和羊肉
2.因為我堂哥有過敏, 強迫我堂哥吃她也有過敏的朋友吃好的直銷健康食品
後者例如:
1.我堂哥買房半投資半自住, 他媽求籤得到一個不好的籤, 死命阻擋他.
我堂哥是讀經濟的, 他花了好幾年研究+比較, 才相中一間既能投資又能自住.
一個籤就毀了他多年心血, 錯過這次不知道又要等到多久.
2.他想買外幣, 但因為他們家有好幾棟房子, 他媽的理財觀念就只有投資"房子"
加上有親人投資股票失利, 損失幾千萬, 所以他媽認為股票, 期貨, 基金, 保險, 外匯,
這些都是旁門左道, 是賭博, 堅決反對我堂哥買外匯.
本來這些是他家的事, 不甘我的事, 但是我二伯母(堂哥他媽)
三不五時家族聚會會洗腦家族的老女人們,
一群老女人會開始反這反那, 要你好要他好, 出現很多反智反理性行為.
最近潑及到我, 要我好好待在家考公務員, 要我辭職, 不要在外面工作, 不要想創業,
好好守住家業(房產)就好.
老女人們沒辦法好好討論, 他們是教條式思考, 想法直觀, 沒有辦法分析與互相溝通,
想表達意見就會被解讀成"叛逆不聽話" "不尊重長輩" 然後對你生氣.
我該怎麼做才好? 真的要辭去工作蹲家裡考公務員了嗎?
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