從前有個叫曾子的人對父母非常孝順
可是有一天,曾父在盛怒之下,把曾子打到暈眩昏倒,因為曾子不敢反抗父親,任由他打
。
孔子耳聞這件事後大怒
但不是罵曾父,而是責怪曾子,說
「你怎麼不跑呢,你被父親打倒昏倒,害父親在外受人指點,這樣對嗎?」
於是孔子教曾子以後遇到這種事情的應對方法是「小杖則受,大杖則逃」
父母小力打你,你就承受;若是用力過猛,則先逃走等父母氣消。
請問孔子這種想法是不是異於常人?
「小杖受大杖逃」是面對父母盛怒的好方法嗎?
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