[心情] 談結婚後 開始不滿...消失
先前隊友向自己求婚
我是覺得結婚應該要有更多時間去籌劃
結果日前隊友的父母說想要和我的父母見個面
我問是不是「提親」 隊友說 只是雙方父母見一見
結果那天吃到結尾時
他爸媽就丟出個時間 問我們好不好 (事前完全沒合八字 只是請廟公翻農民曆)
結婚時間離現在只有三個月
當然覺得太趕 而且很多事情需要規劃及討論
我們這邊委婉拒絕這時間 但隊友父母還一直盧
說什麼認識的某某人一個月就解決結婚的事
最後我跟隊友喬到延後的時間
事後跟我的朋友聊 他們認為應有個正式的提親
我也覺得應該在雙方父母討論下達成共識
因此跟隊友說 是否應有個正式的提親
聽說他父母直接大怒 說當初不是講好不要有禮節的
又變來變去的
最後是說好 但講明 事前把事情說好 不要加加減減的
我心想 當初在飯桌上 我父母蠻開明的 說「由年輕人決定」
覺得對方父母是個掌控慾很高的人
這些禮節沒談過 就直接以自己認定不需要 不夠尊重女方家
覺得隊友人雖好 但因為我們籌備的時間不夠多
感覺他也沒有積極在準備 思考進行的流程等等
都是我這邊想到 跟他講他才會做
雖然跟別人的問題相比起來 似乎比較小
不過還是很不滿對方家庭對我們看法的不重視
籌備婚禮後 問題一一浮現...
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ema大 你們有拍婚紗嗎?這來的及嗎?
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完全沒有懷孕 不知道對方急什麼 可能希望在過年時把我也帶回老家吧
※ 編輯: iamnumber1 (27.247.11.57), 10/14/2018 15:07:46
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