各位學長姊
小弟剛結婚
本來都好好的
老婆回娘家後
他爸爸說結婚當天他非常生氣
因為我沒有準備父母禮
當初他爸媽說不收聘金
簡單就好
禮燭禮香禮炮就可以了
結果結婚當天我媽為求慎重
準備了20萬聘金(有用紅巾包起來)
六禮也準備
新娘車還特地借來賓士250d休旅車
前導車也是BMW X5休旅車
還有一台賓士禮車和姑丈前一天剛牽的新車...
但是
昨天
他爸媽卻說
雖然不收聘金,但我們男方聘金也準備的太薄了吧
而且竟然沒有準備父母禮,只準備那些冬瓜糖什麼的
分明就是不尊重他們
小孩子不懂連父母也不懂
吃人夠夠
說簡單就好就隨隨便便來娶我女兒
.......
以上是我老婆轉述給我
我老婆也覺得爸爸媽媽沒有受到尊重
可是
從頭到尾我們家對結婚這件事
都很重視
完全沒有不尊重對方家人的意思
也好幾次確認只需要禮燭禮香禮炮
老婆娘家也都說就這樣簡單就好
我也真的不知道要給父母禮
現在老婆和她爸媽都在氣頭上
我該怎麼做好呢?
準備明天包3萬6的紅包去賠罪,這樣妥當嗎?
會不會又出什麼岔子
好奇想問大家都知道有父母禮嗎?結婚時大家都有包嗎?
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