[心情] 親情勒索
原PO是女生 原PO的媽媽從我大學開始變成不太負責任的媽媽
沉迷於某間直銷,可以不吃飯不能沒買直銷
大概從我大三開始就沒我生活費
告訴我:我沒再跟你爸爸拿生活費 你不要跟我要
之後問爸爸這件事
他告訴我一個月都有給媽媽4W以上的家用,
但她這段時間一毛錢也沒有給我&弟弟(弟弟當時才國中)
因為她沉迷於直銷 我們家人屢勸不聽
現在家裡已經沒有人願意跟她聊天
她很常出去外面講我不孝 賺錢沒給她生活費
我的認知是 爸爸沒有讓她缺錢用
我也不想要我辛苦賺的錢被她花去直銷
只要她離開直銷 不買直銷 我會給她一些生活費
最近有了論及婚嫁的男朋友
媽媽去跟外婆說 男朋友提親沒跟她講 很不尊重她
還跟爸爸&男朋友帶到外面去提親
(但是 男朋友根本還沒來提親)
後來很認真地思考提親她要不要在場這件事情
因為怕媽媽亂講話(亂開大小聘 OR 講我不孝之類的)
外婆跟大阿姨要求我一定要讓媽媽在場 因為 她是我媽媽!
但我跟爸爸討論之後 爸爸也擔心媽媽的行為會讓場面失控
後來經過一翻猶豫後 爸爸也覺得媽媽不要在場會比較好
也告知過男方家人我們家的問題了
想知道大家的想法~
謝謝~
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