各位新娘好,早上我po過文章了
但怕被發現所以刪文
先簡單說明一下早上的事,我是明天就要結婚的新娘,
早上先生突然打來說 他被婆婆&三姑六婆狂攻擊說明天我訂婚宴上不能穿白紗
原本婆婆前天才知道是白紗時這件事已被先生擋掉,
沒想到早上去採買東西被店家說的「懷孕不能穿白紗會影響小孩」
加上三姑六婆也在旁邊講同樣的事
婆婆後來非常堅持我明天就是不能穿白紗,
我先生跟他大吵,她狂跳針,
但最後有退讓說如果真的要白紗也沒關係
最後我們決定換掉白紗原因是正巧我們的確小孩可能有問題(還在等報告結果),
這件事只有我們夫妻知道,
萬一之後小孩真的有問題
那這件事一定會拿來大作文章而且被講很久。
事情目前都已經解決反正也找好了紅色婚紗,
我能理解婆婆非常非常看重孫子,所以才會堅持習俗。而先生的確也有出來擋掉。
但是我心裡有芥蒂,不知道該怎麼調適心情,
我們白紗之前就已經買也找人改好,
加上只辦訂婚不辦結婚,而訂婚又是女方的場子
我們家都沒說什麼了 ,
為什麼會在前一天被這樣搞,覺得婆婆很過分、先生也不夠有肩膀。
雖然慶幸沒有跟公婆住,以後也一個月見一次面而已,
但是我還是很生氣今天發生這種事!
請問我可以怎麼轉換心態?
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我們沒有拍婚紗照,除了蜜月講究外,對其它不太有要求
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就這件事而已,之前一個月回婆婆家一次都吃好睡好,家裡很熱鬧嫂嫂會幫忙一切,我問要不要幫忙也都是不用
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※ 編輯: fuxkadd (114.26.118.47), 04/15/2017 23:01:54
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覺得先生應該更有力的說出「是三姑六婆要結婚還是我要結婚」或者「訂婚是女方的場子人家都沒說什麼了你們幹嘛管這麼多」堵住大家的嘴巴
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※ 編輯: fuxkadd (114.26.118.47), 04/15/2017 23:20:00
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