[問題] 舅舅結婚的紅包
我已經出嫁,當時因為小舅舅(當時40y up)還沒結婚,所以我結婚時他沒有包紅包給我
小舅舅今年底要娶妻,媽媽那邊會準備紅包
但是家裡長輩說法兩派,有人說我不用包,媽媽包就好
有人說我已出嫁,所以也要包一包給舅舅
上網查過,有人說不用包,媽媽包就好。
有人說要包,但是是以添金子為主,紅包的話是包給之後舅舅的後代
請問究竟是要包還是不要包?
如果要包,包給舅舅的是要包多少金額呢?
深深覺得紅包文化真是一門艱深又複雜的學問阿
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邏輯點就在這裡,當初舅舅因為未婚沒包給我,現在我已婚卻要包給他,金額實在難拿捏
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就是媽媽跑來問我這個問題的,她也不知要不要包
目前結論是先大舅舅討論,如果大舅舅已婚的三個小孩會包,
大家就說好一個金額一起包,如果不包,就一起不包。這樣...應該可以吧^^"
只是很好奇版友遇到類似的情形都怎麼處理。
※ 編輯: Lethe7289 (36.228.114.197), 12/14/2016 15:10:16
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是的,當初好像是說舅舅還沒成家不用包紅包,所以也沒有添妝。
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我媽媽也是這麼覺得,可是家裡就有長輩(我阿姨)一直堅持我要包...
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就是因爲沒包所有現在要回有點困惑,金額很難拿捏
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