[心情] 每次討論每次吵架...
好不容易決定日期明年一月要結婚,
現在每次跟長輩討論婚事細節都會吵架要不就被兇....
搞得心情真的很差...
長輩真的是大魔王..不懂為什麼有這麼多堅持跟脾氣!!!!
男方的阿嬤堅持訂結一天,我們擔心時間會太趕,所以提議一天早上先辦訂婚儀式,
隔天再結婚宴客,我這邊家長都沒問題,男朋友媽媽也都ok...
但男朋友外婆那關一直過不去!!!
因為男朋友是外婆照顧長大的,原本是希望她可以來參加,
我也是拜託撒嬌他阿嬤很久...阿嬤還是不答應...
搞到最後男朋友就決定請她媽媽下來訂婚儀式就好了
隔天再讓阿嬤下來參加喜宴.....(但不知道到時候會不會怎樣....)
這是一個月前的事了...真的搞得很沮喪...
剛剛回家跟我阿嬤聊天,她就突然問我們宴客餐廳找了沒,
我們就說還在考慮要訂餐廳還是活動中心辦流水席,
她就暴怒了...說我們桌數又不多,辦在活動中心能看嗎??
我不懂....是要多少桌才能辦在活動中心??? 只是想找喜歡的外燴師傅而已?
再說,我很多同學都辦在活動中心阿......
然後又說我們挑這麼大的日子,難怪飯店都訂不到了....
問我日子是去給誰算的???
我就說是之前我同學帶我去算名的地方,
她就又爆氣說...「是都沒有長輩了嗎?為什麼還要同學帶你去??」
「現在都很厲害了」等等的這種話.....
我就火了...看日子是很早之前的事了...現在莫名其妙暴怒到底是想怎樣??
回房洗澡的時候我就崩潰大哭了....
不是一件喜事嗎??? 為什麼每次討論這件事時都這麼不愉快???
阿嬤的控制慾到底有多強烈!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
每次都說你們年輕人自己決定就好,決定後告知她就馬上被打槍!!!!!
搞到現在我都不想討論了....
你們想怎樣就怎樣吧....
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對阿!我都說那我還出場幹嘛= =真是傻眼....
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大家都出一張嘴最厲害!!!!!
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我現在也有種半放棄的狀態.....
反倒是我男朋友一直想照我意思處理...我都叫他不要煩我XD
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世上只有媽媽好 T^T
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是人格分裂嗎.....!!!
※ 編輯: lulumistyle (220.143.62.147), 05/05/2016 23:25:48
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