[閒聊] 蜜月去不去
關於宴客禮俗的花費
大部份是我和男友共同支出
其實壓的我和男友有點吃緊
所以本來打算蜜月就取消不去(很想去歐洲(>﹏<))
但最近跟公司確認婚假不能累計(年假是可以的)
頓時不知道8天假要幹嘛
有考慮解一筆定存去個小旅行
因為是明年1月
本島已不知要去哪
近一點的小琉球,澎湖,沖繩也不適合
還在想要去哪能在預算內
但是今天跟男友提
他卻說怕他媽不高興
覺得我都把錢花在玩樂
不考慮未來生活及小孩費用
我能理解他媽的想法及擔憂
但是因為男友假日也都在加班
我希望他能放鬆一下
而且有婚假可放
錢可以挪用一部分來支付不會影響到生活
(不然我也是當奶粉錢一直放下去)
為何要講話?
錢再賺就有時間確不一定有
要我去兼職也可以
更何況這筆花用是我私房錢出的
沒有要任何人支付這筆額外的開銷
(包含男友的部分也我出)
這樣不行嗎?
如果真的不去蜜月
那要幹嘛啊?
連兩天有約沒回應真抱歉
我要替他們澄清一下
■宴客和餅錢是由男友媽出錢,紅包也一律給長輩收,其他支出一律我們自己負擔
■其實只是男友再擔心,我們還沒跟男友媽提要去蜜月的事,所以沒有下馬威啦!
但依我對男友媽的了解,他的確是會這樣說的
■男友不是媽寶,只是在提醒我可能會有的狀況,讓我評估是否能承受
真要去他也是會不顧他媽陪我去!
昨天看板友們的回覆,「真要黑未來還有一堆事可黑,不差這項」
就頓悟了!昨晚已跟男友說一定要去蜜月(≧▽≦)
■關於請假的事,因為我在日商上班,所以規定不能完全比照台灣
但我有問經理,似乎只要在婚後2個月內都可以,一年內就不太可能了
■一開始我們也是打算把儀式和宴客省略掉,只要一對婚戒和去蜜月就好
但長輩壓力下(是我媽= =)只能事與願違
■歐洲自助對我們來說難度太高了,英文很弱Orz
所以真的只能很久很久的以後再說了
真謝謝大家,如果我沒問,可能真的蜜月就byebye了
處理婚事遇到很多不愉快的事,能去蜜月真的心情會好很多
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