[問題] 關於訂婚男方家長輩硬要加桌
大家好
我今年7月要訂婚宴客 因為人少所以只訂四桌 ㄧ桌要14000 走小精緻低調餐宴 都是請我
非常熟的人
我住台中 男方住新竹 所以訂結分開
訂婚部分完全都是我父親負擔費用
也沒收什麼禮聘 請的人都是女方的人
但是因為男方長輩覺得四桌這個數字不吉利 提出要再加兩桌的要求
還要包遊覽車把男方親友從新竹帶下來湊兩桌
但我跟未婚夫並不想
因為加桌的費用會是他負擔 連親友遊覽車費
他母親說親戚會資助 但是卻又要他貸款他的經濟沒那麼多閒錢
這個問題他跟他母親已經吵過很多次 今天我也勸 也是講不攏 一直堅持四桌不吉利 我爸
出錢的都不在意了
通常來說 男方家親戚應該要結婚才來的嗎?
這樣一來根本就不是我想要低調溫馨的訂婚了
該怎麼辦呢?他跟我都很困擾
請大家給些建議 謝謝
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