[心情] 因長輩生病取消婚宴
奶奶去年12月因為腸子破裂住進加護病房, 至3月才出院,
當時卡在奶奶住院, 原先12月要提親, 改成4/5男友爸媽提親,
原本想讓阿嬤高興一點,原訂今年6/5文定+家宴, 希望至少能讓她看到文定儀式,
今天奶奶的切片結果出來, 確認是鱗狀細胞癌, 大概5月又得住進加護病房動刀,
我和家人也沒心情辦這些儀式和家宴, 只好全部取消......(包含9/3的迎娶+宴客)
只是有點疑問的是, 如果我們今年九月登記, 之後再迎娶+宴客,
這樣文定的儀式和禮品等等是否還有需要準備?
登記後就已經是法定夫妻了.....似乎再準備文定就有點多餘?
計畫被打亂, 又要面臨長輩隨時有可能會離開QQ
心情蠻糟的, 但樂觀點想, 或許也可以多一點時間減肥啦(嘆)
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※ 編輯: milanlee (116.118.169.1), 04/14/2016 21:16:38
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