[問題] 有人媽媽不好意思請親戚參加婚宴嗎?
我媽媽是個非常低調客氣的人
之前親戚小孩結婚,她都會過去包禮金舟車勞頓的參加
但現在換我結婚了,她卻一直說不想請親戚來@@
問她原因她說不好意思
還說怕平常沒常聯絡,結婚才打電話邀約讓人觀感不好balabala.......
搞得女兒結個婚好像多見不得人似的
今天爭執的導火線是在訂喜餅和宴客桌數之前,
她說會請她的表姊、表哥、表弟、三個前同事及其伴侶共10人,6喜餅
但這幾天問她喜帖寄出沒,
她卻支支吾吾說不想請這10位
還一直推託說叫我多請一些自己的朋友,不要靠她........
我要找朋友來當然很容易
但我媽這心態真的讓我無法接受 (而且人數和喜餅數都有變動,真的增加我麻煩)
去年年底前她的表姊表哥表弟陸續都有小孩結婚,她們都有去
為何我結婚卻不請他們來分享我的喜悅呢?
反觀我公婆早在2個月前把所有親戚都打點知會過了,人數都精算仔細
讓我老公只需要顧著約自己的同事朋友就好
而我除了要顧自己朋友還要一直開導我媽~~真是無力!!
有人碰過這種問題嗎?該怎麼解決呢?
還是說乾脆就順著我媽個性~大家開心就好?
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