[心情]為什麼這麼不愛講清楚!!
先介紹一下我爸媽的個性
過日子方面觀念算開明
人情方面很傳統
走不說明白你也應該知道路線
家人間的關心常走跟a說b怎麼了而不問b路線
我姐結婚的時候
我接受了很多我娘的murmur
只能在心底想說為什麼妳不問她啊......
總之最近開始密集籌備自己的婚禮
有鑑於不少聽到準備時雙方家庭的不愉快
基本上我們說好,自己解決自己家人
男方家就是看我們這邊提什麼就做
做不到再協調
所以最近我回家就常在問禮俗他們想如何
然後我媽就會一直說他們都沒意見都好
一直問之後再說那個什麼要給
說實在我們兩個新人很想知道我爸媽詳細的底線囧,所以今天我問了一次小聘要不要給個
詳細數字
我爸媽就說為什麼都是我問
這個不是應該他們叫媒人問
(我os:媒人!?這個不是裝飾品意思意思出現一下就好了?)而且我們不是賣女兒,有
什麼條件好提的。
罷特其實我覺得
他們家尊重我們女方,都先問我們到底哪些禮俗比較在意要做到不是很好嗎? 但父母的
意思感覺是,他們那邊應該要跟媒人講好,自己先說到底要給什麼,請媒人來講這類的
自己女兒問清楚然後你們說明白不好嗎
Orzzzzzzz
網路上大家各自家不同習俗百百種
我相信父母心中也有怎樣算周到的想法
但是為什麼就是不肯說啊啊啊啊
(崩潰)
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