[問題] 中部訂婚行情
眼看訂婚日子快到了,但家中長輩卻越來越心煩
因為禮俗跟當初講好的不一樣讓長輩困擾
一開始雙方坐下來談時很愉快,女方家長都說隨意
所有的錢都沒講明要包多少
但隨著日子越來越近,長輩再多次詢問對方禮俗後
都很有出入...
1.女方家長自收聘金
(這部份目前沒爭議,一開始開大小聘要66~100w
後來坐下來談後表明隨意,沒有開金額!
我們準備20w,當然出入有點大但能準備的就這麼多)
2.乳母錢
媒人表示南部這有收聘金就不用包乳母錢
因為女方沒講到所以意思包12w
3.餅錢(爭議)
媒人表示南部這行情包10w
但前幾天致電詢問禮俗被酸說中部這最少16w起跳
還有36盒餅頭(?)的錢含其中回禮18盒都要我們出
因為一開始家母表示六禮內的餅用貼錢不用再做
一來我這親戚不多不需要分,二來也不用浪費錢
只需要做女方部分,但現在說他們那的習俗一定要做
我又還另外請他們作10盒要送朋友,現在要吃到吐了
4.車錢(爭議)
雖然是小事,但也是有點疙瘩
我們訂婚出遊覽車去的錢,但結婚女方親戚下來遊覽
車錢要我們付,而且一叫就是兩台。
後來家母覺得莫名其妙推回去要他們自己負責
其他小錢及費用也是男方包辦
只能問..中部的行情都這麼高嗎?
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