[心情] 結婚才知道自己原來不會做人
這個月要結婚了
為了發帖在前一兩個月就開始詢問親朋好友是否要來參加婚禮
有不少昔日好麻吉在畢業後南北各自工作
雖然也已經好幾年幾乎完全沒有聯絡的
得知我要結婚後都是秒回 肯定到場 有哪裡需要幫忙的
當下真的讓我覺得很感動!!覺得有這些朋友真好!!
交情次之的
大多也很乾脆的回說要來或不方便來並獻上幾句祝福關心你近況
有些還會打電話來解釋說那天真的不方便之類的XDDD
我覺得這也很棒!
但讓我難過的是
有一部分人請他幫忙填問卷也好 或懶得填請他直接告知我也好
結果出現以下狀況:
1. 已讀不回
過兩周再提醒他一次要統計人數了麻煩他告知 結果連新訊息還是一樣已讀不回
2. 恭喜!!
就只回恭喜兩個字 好像多打幾個字問候也沒時間 然後問卷填人不到場
3. 已填
沒有任何祝福 問卷填人不到也不用發帖 訊息就回覆已填兩個字!!
而讓我心寒的是以上這三種人有八九成都是已經結婚了 而且當年都有發帖給我
自收到人生第一張喜帖以來 我出席率算很高 依交情深淺最少都有包2600以上
而且不管能不能出席我都會很開心發自內心的給予新人祝福 是真的替這些朋友開心
真的不能到場的禮金也從沒缺席過最少都有2000以上並打電話去祝福幾句
結果換來的卻是今天這樣的對待.....
也許你工作真的很忙 也許你覺得太久沒聯絡 或者交情不到那邊
其實你真的不能來也沒關係 不想收帖也沒關係 你的紅包沒有那麼重要
但你就連多花個2分鐘恭喜我一下 多祝福我幾句也沒有???
讓我覺得當年替他們結婚而感到開心感動的自己 活像個白癡一樣!!
結婚這才讓我發現
原來我是這麼不會做人..........
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