[心情] 親戚們對聘金有意見
我是單親,父母離婚後跟媽媽,對於聘金這件事我媽一開始總是跟男方說:看誠意就好。
男方一開始就表明一定會給聘金,希望那些聘金是可以給我們當成家基金。
提完親後來談到訂婚當天要不要擺出來了,這時候一堆親戚的聲音就出來了
1.姑姑(爸爸的姊姊):聘金多少?現金嗎?擺出來看嗎?
(媽媽邀請姑姑參加訂婚宴時姑姑問的問題)
2.外公外婆:就是要擺現金!
3.爺爺奶奶(從小照顧我到長大):不要收聘金,我們不是賣小孩。
尤其是姑姑讓我超傻眼:到底聘金多少要不要擺出來關他什麼事?
我未來的公婆、老公及我是偏向不要擺現金,畢竟要從台中開遊覽車到花蓮,路途遙遠
如果現金搞丟或是出什麼差錯就糗了 Orz
1.將聘金存入我們的戶頭並列印出來給親友看
2.聘金兌換成支票
我們想到最安全的方法就是這兩種了
很多人覺得就是要把錢擺出來女方才有面子,但我極力反對這樣的想法
我覺得「兩人的幸福不能用男方給聘金多寡來衡量」
上次提親才跟不熟的親戚大吵架了,講到聘金又是另一個爭吵的開始了。
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