[問題] 嫁孫女還是賣孫女?
12/27就要訂婚了...我們是訂婚、結婚、歸寧分開!
前陣子都住男方家今天才回我家住,順便討論27號的流程,跟告知男方準備的禮金!
我跟我媽其實都是隨意高興就好,金錢多寡都無所謂....但我奶奶從以前就覺得我爸爸做
工沒錢完全比不上在台北發展的叔叔,總覺得我爸媽沒錢嫁女兒!
當時男方來提親時奶奶也說隨意就好,只要疼愛我,但我今天回家告知小聘20萬跟喝茶禮
一包1000元(20包),奶奶就開始不開心的說小聘這樣有點少....哪有人喝茶禮才1000至
少新郎也要包12000之類的....本以為嫁有錢人的說!
Ps:男方算是在地方是大家族有祖產之類的...
ㄧ直當著我的面數落我媽媽,其實我很替我媽心疼,平常都是他在照顧爺爺奶奶,還要工
作,但怎麼做都比不上遠在台北的叔叔久久回來一次就拿一疊錢回來孝敬他老人家!
我不知道聘金的行情跟壓茶禮,我只覺得為什麼開心的婚事總是要弄的銅臭味很重!
我媽一直說奶奶在看她笑話,沒錢嫁女兒會不會跟她老人家開口...
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我在網路查也是大約這樣,但我真的不知他老人家哪來的數據,我很怕到時忍不住跟我奶
奶頂嘴!
※ 編輯: amy80034 (118.233.180.153), 12/26/2015 00:10:36
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t大也真的辛苦你了....我會裝作沒聽到把該做的事情辦好就好,只覺得那些錢在老人家
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※ 編輯: amy80034 (118.233.180.153), 12/26/2015 10:55:55
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我現在比較擔心明天男方來以後,奶奶會口不擇言!到時場面尷尬就慘了
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