[問題] 結婚奉茶的紅包是誰的?
已爬文和GOOGLE過,但好像沒有明確答案?!
結婚午宴完新娘奉茶後,紅包是誰的?
我爸媽說一般是新娘的,我婆婆說是新郎的
是想問是因為地區不同而有的差異嗎?
找了一下討論好像大多是新娘自己收起來(因為是新娘端茶的嘛~)
也有說是婆婆的(畢竟都是男方的親友)
請問一下~
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感謝以上各位的回答
錢給誰當然是沒差,重點是讓我感覺不好
本來毫無疑問就是給我的,先生忽然說:「我媽說是我的」
我還以為是開玩笑的,而且不知道是理解錯誤還怎樣,
婆婆還問我錢要匯入那個帳戶(當時先生在我後面,是我回答)
結果一聲不響的直接匯入我先生的帳戶...
還先把錢抽走的紅包袋塞給我...
本來依我的個性一定要找婆婆問清楚
但考量到這一定會傷感情,而且先生應該是站在婆婆那邊
婆婆平常也對我們很好,才新婚,不想搞到大家不愉快就只好作罷了
雖然我很想讓婆婆知道我不是在意那些錢,是她不能在這件事上做主
跟先生平常的花費都是輪流出,連婚禮共同開支(蜜月)也是差不多
女生視為最重要的鑽戒我也只挑了4500的
聘金我也是跟先生說了:「錢我不會動,以後有較大的共同開支才會用」
(有嫁妝一台車)
...
婆婆,就繼續觀察吧...
先生反應:(我媽一開始就說給我)可能是他沒表達清楚,又覺得我戶頭要有點錢吧
...
※ 編輯: bigeyes0416 (118.232.18.100), 11/17/2015 07:49:58
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