9/27男友和我求婚了!
所以家人已經在陸陸續續討論訂婚結婚的事情
下星期10/17雙方父母要第一次見面
男友家閩南人(竹南),我們家是客家人(新竹縣)
我媽是說不收聘金(大小都不收),也沒有嫁妝
餅 男方買
訂結分開
(因為結婚當天桌數不夠,想把桌席都留給男方親友)
訂婚 爸媽請自己的親友,不收禮
我的朋友是結婚當天請,禮給男方收就好
今天上班前媽媽說要收"治裝費"
是全部給我的,爸媽不拿
她問了幾個最近有小孩結婚的朋友都說有這個習俗
收"366" =>36萬6千
我有點嚇到
想說一般人小聘都收16萬
治裝費這樣會太多嗎="=?
大家是只收小聘還是小聘+治裝費?
想說先來問問看大家...
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我稍微Google了一下,客家人是有治裝費的,而且和小聘是分開算
我媽有補說這筆錢是全部給我,我想要只收6000也可以=..=
和男友先討論看看他覺得要怎麼樣好了
談錢傷感情啊...( ˊ_>ˋ)
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所以一般嫁妝都是準備什麼?
我們家訂婚有準備12禮給男方
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