我是男方
原本聘金的事情,我姊姊嫁人也沒拿聘金,所以就原本只有訂桌錢加餅錢及討個吉利20W
然後後來說要有聘金,我就改成說好那聘金20W,餅錢跟訂桌錢實報實銷,
結果我女朋友說對她來講很像待價而沽,我想好那就30W所有花費,因為訂婚桌我大概去兩桌
我女朋友結婚合請的桌數也大概十桌左右
結果昨天被下最後通牒,因為30W太少,所以她媽媽說不能說收聘金,要算奶媽錢
重點就是收的聘金太少會害她家沒面子,我說不收聘金不就20W嗎
為了面子,我家人也沒說要嫁妝做面子
因為我的想法是儘量不要再跟家人拿這些錢,原本我答應她說因為我人在外地工作
她可以先住娘家,但這樣我就等於欠我家人一筆錢,很難去跟家人開口這些事情
然後目前冷戰中
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※ 編輯: angelo121 (211.22.64.237), 09/15/2015 11:15:33
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之前問她聘金要附嫁妝,她是直接回我,她表姐收聘金不附嫁妝的
我也差點回她那妳要不要考慮嫁給你表姐夫
其實也不是硬要拿我姐來比,只是聘金對嫁女兒影響,要跟她討論
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s883662 我可以問一下你後來有因為這價值觀造成一些困擾嗎
因為我現在最擔心的點是以後為了面子不知道會有什麼事情
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