[心情]禮俗用品訂了就不能退??(怒)
籌備婚事以來與娘家媽媽在傳統儀式上的折衝一直是我最頭疼的點
男方家長對禮俗沒有研究,也沒有堅持
天真的我以為是一大利多,
殊不知娘家媽媽有許多顧慮,大吵了好幾場,目前算是各自退讓
我對傳統禮俗多一點了解尊重,
媽媽也比較能體諒我不想落入傳統嫁娶的窠臼而是平等結婚的理想
------以上都不是這篇心情文的重點-------
雖然媽媽口頭應允儀式簡化再簡化
但是基於之前數次溝通的經驗,我想有些東西有備無患
畢竟有好幾次口頭說不要,但心裡還是有所期盼
於是昨天(星期日)抽空和未婚夫去了板橋的一間禮俗用品店
主要訂了訂婚六禮要用的六色糖、香炮燭以及租借木盛
回到家和媽媽稟報了此事
怎知老媽覺得不合意,
覺得六色喜糖不須買那麼大盒的
鞭炮沒有地方施放,不用買
總之結論是想去家裡就近的店裡找她覺得合用的就好
媽媽願意從簡,我當然要盡力配合 XD
所以今天請託我未婚夫下班後趕緊去禮俗店問問可否退訂
雖然可料想商家一定不會樂意,
但是想說辦喜事的大家也該和和氣氣
畢竟我們婚禮在10月初,前一晚上下的訂單,貨也還沒出隔天就趕緊來退了
應該不會讓店家產生損失
怎知老闆娘態度非常強硬
我未婚夫只好打電話來問我怎麼辦
和老闆娘通上電話,真是講得我一肚子火
對方堅稱:「下訂了以後就已經委請廠商出貨,食品這種東西不能退,最多讓你們換等值
商品,請你們三天之內就下好決定要換什麼,我們才好幫你們改訂單。」
我答說既然食品不能退(OS.最好已經出貨了啦~而且短期內都沒有其他買家? 胡扯!),
那香燭禮炮這些東西有效期限夠長,也吃不死人的東西總可以退吧?
「沒有(高八度)~反正下訂了就不能退了」
無理可講得當下,我竟然退縮了!!
只好問我今天確定我這些東西都不要了,你錢都已經全額收走了(還沒開發票),沒道理我
要別的商品你還要限定我三天之內跟你換吧?
「好~那我通融你們,你們七天之內來換就好」(真是謝謝皇后娘娘大人大量呀!)
到此為止我已經不想再說什麼,掛了電話,怒火中燒
想到昨天逛店的同時,老闆娘對這一位專程來換貨的媽媽先是板著臉高八度質問「這東西
沒貨啦,誰跟你說可以換的」
又當著客人的面對著店員翻白眼,當下我真應該有所警惕的
現在我只想明天打電話跟消基會諮詢,或跟消保會寄申訴信
不過還是先來版上問問各位學長姐,禮俗用品真的訂了就不能退? 我是否成了刁難商家
的奧客?
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所以只是看過外包裝,並非一手交錢一手交貨的交易
(錢已經先給,但是我們並未取貨)
也適用實體店面無七天鑑賞期的規範嗎?
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之前媽媽曾經氣到放話說不想理會,所以不想說盡量不要麻煩到她出馬
問題是目前需要用到的東西沒有這麼多
我有想過再換見面禮給公婆或其他不是那麼需要的東西
很多話只是我心裡的O和觀察S,並沒有對店家不禮貌
※ 編輯: pinpink (1.161.154.4), 09/14/2015 23:05:03
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瞭解了,知道該怎麼做了
謝謝大家!
※ 編輯: pinpink (1.161.154.4), 09/14/2015 23:10:56
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