[心情] 我不想要花童
我從以前對婚禮的構想就從沒有花童的存在過,因為偏向簡單一點的婚禮,覺得小朋友難
控制又容易暴走,很不喜歡(不是不喜歡小孩,是不喜歡花童),只希望他們乖乖坐在位
置上吃飯就好。
我自己有個姪子,未來老公也有個外甥,兩個又剛好差不多大,目前是快要四歲。
打從有在說要結婚的時候,未來老公的姐姐跟姊夫就很高興的說他們小朋友可以當花童,
當下心裡有點驚慌,不過也想說是一年後的事,都不要提說不定會雲淡風輕.......
最近未來老公買了一台玩具電動車送給他外甥,姊姊很開心的又說,「這樣剛好可以在你
們婚禮進場的時候當前導車開進來,現在很流行這樣!」。當下聽到整個嚇到,感覺他們
自己已經確定要這麼做了......
現在一直在猶豫要不要拒絕,因為我自己也有姪子,要我主動跟哥哥說不要花童是很簡單
的事,但是我怕我不給老公外甥當花童我又會黑掉......
如果我答應要給外甥當花童,勢必我自己姪子也要一起當(不然我大嫂可能會不開心),
但是我們家沒有買電動車給姪子.....難道要他自己用走的嗎......
另外我姐姐也剛好有個女兒,姊姊說她女兒一直想像小公主一樣當我的花童走紅毯......
到底為什麼那麼多爸媽很愛塞自己小孩到別人婚禮當花童,好煩喔。
用iphone po文,排版可能有點不好,盡請見諒
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「自己都想好」真的讓人很不爽!!!
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我只是想抱怨兼討論應對方法而已.....好可怕......我等等還是刪文好了,謝謝大家提
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