[問題] 有人訂婚+結婚+歸寧辦三場的嗎? (暈)
結婚的禮俗跟規定太多種了
爬文爬得頭好暈
決定還是把我的困擾po出來請教學長姐
我台中人,老公新竹人
目前確定的是結婚辦在中午 (新竹)
前一天晚上女方家人就住進新竹的飯店
所以迎娶也是在飯店房間舉行
所以不可能訂結同一天
女方是辦歸寧宴客@台中 (親朋好友20幾桌)
我媽媽希望還要有一場訂婚 只請雙方家人 (兩到三桌)
可是這樣我就要請三場新秘 三場婚攝
禮服也要多租 (婚紗公司包套是訂婚兩件禮服+結婚一白二晚)
最大煩惱是男方家人要來台中兩次
因為男方媽媽不喜歡結個婚搞得這麼麻煩
我媽媽又很堅持一定要有訂婚
因為要擺十二禮給別人看 要祭祖
嫁唯一個女兒才值得
我孤狗了訂婚結婚儀式
我想到的做法是
1.不要提親: 男方可以少來台中一次
2.訂婚照辦
穿一套紅色禮服,去婚紗公司做單妝
請朋友幫忙攝影
3.結婚在新竹 一件白紗一件禮服
有新秘 有婚攝
4.歸寧在台中 兩件禮服
有新秘 有婚攝
5.女方的餅歸寧才發 (很多外縣市的朋友親戚)
這點不確定能不能這樣做
還是一定要結婚前發?
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補充一下~
因為準婆婆跟媽媽都希望女方宴客在歸寧
雙方各有考量
所以一定要有的是結婚和歸寧
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