[問題] 高雄收聘行情價
已經爬過文,但還是有些疑問,請版友幫幫忙!
男友媽媽是說36萬(包含聘金)看夠不夠,如果不夠可以再添!
因為男友的姊姊當初收了36萬包含聘金,但她有附一棟房子(還在貸款)當嫁妝~
但我媽不收聘金只收餅錢和奶母錢卻又覺得36萬包含聘金太少...(也不知該退聘金多少)
我沒有任何嫁妝,我們的新娘房也都從男友家拿錢來布置~
所有的金飾都跟她的姐姐和姊夫借,因為男友媽媽覺得現金比較好,不要花錢買~
但我過門她會再給我一對金元寶,也說我家不要花錢再打任何金飾給男友~
我媽就說她朋友都36萬不含聘金?!不曉得在高雄的行情真的是這樣嗎?
現在又說什麼錢我自己拿所有事情我自己去準備(她生氣了!!!)
我家的阿嬤覺得人家什麼都用好了不要收太多錢,整個超煩的阿!
其實重點在我媽難搞,不會算明細又想照行情價(我沒嫁妝)又怕被講話(氣)
所以請大家給我一個建議吧,讓我有個依據跟我媽說人家是怎麼做的!
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我想~大家誤會了啦!因為連我同學看到這篇也打電話問我是怎麼一回事!!
我媽不是覺得36萬太少,她覺得很OK!只是因為男友家說包含聘金,
我媽在想包含聘金的話因為我們不收,所以還要從36萬裡拿一筆錢出來退!
後來跟身邊的人討論是說他們開36萬就拿吧!
雖然我沒嫁妝,但我自己身上也有自己存的錢~我想應該夠吧?!
至於有版友說我和男友可以自己決定規劃,其實我們是抱著尊重長輩的意思~
非常感謝大家願意提供我意見,因為連我同學看到這篇都誤會了所以澄清一下!
我媽要打一條鍊子給男友,被我擋下來了!
畢竟這景氣留著現金還比較重要~
非常感謝大家的幫忙=)
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