[問題] 小聘行情36萬?
事情是這樣的,(我是男方)
訂婚前夕,
我父母去女方家,商討訂婚事宜,(PS:女方家境不好)
希望婚禮簡單就好,要留點錢過日子
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當天
我父親去詢問女方父親(養父)聘金意見,
女方父親是這樣說的:"我們不是賣女兒,所以聘金不跟你們開價,隨意你們就好"
於是我父母親就決定將22萬現金給對方,且不收對方任何嫁妝
問題來了,
晚上女友很傷心的打來說:
我爸說(要收起來,剩下的不會給她),
且我們這邊隨意的意思是最少36萬,
你們只給22萬,你們走了之後,我爸生氣暴怒了,
且我親戚嫁女兒最少都收36萬,
甚至有親戚收到72~108萬(女友家族家境都不好),
只有22萬,我爸媽真的覺得嫁的實在很沒面子,嫁得很隨便,很丟臉!
我立刻跟我爸回報這個情形,我爸馬上將小聘金額提高到36萬,
怕女友父親又生氣了
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我想問的是?
現在行情真的36萬是平均價嗎?
為什麼我身旁朋友都不收居多,或是12~20萬
難道娶鄉下小孩真的比較貴嗎?
這樣光一個婚禮,
肯定是破百萬說,鄉下人好像真的是不太管年輕人死活
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