[問題] 訂結婚中間,家裡可能有喪事已回收
情況是這樣的:
我姐將於5/19訂婚,5/31結婚
但外婆前幾天進加護病房,
昨天開完刀,醫生說情況不樂觀。要我們有心理準備
頂多可能再撐一周左右
我阿媽聽到這件事馬上反應說:
(我們跟阿媽一起住)
家裡要有喜事了,如果你外婆在這中間過世
你們完全不可以去奔喪。
一定要等姐姐結完婚(31號以後)才可以下去南部幫他做後事
不然會把穢氣帶給親家
也完全不可以在這期間讓親家知道這件事,
怕對方覺得不好,姐姐嫁過去會被酸
媽媽聽到時,臉色很不好。但還是點頭允諾說好
但是我聽到當下,實在很不能接受....
他是我外婆耶Q___________Q
想請問板上懂習俗的前輩們,
若外婆中間真的過逝了,結婚前真的不能下去奔喪嗎?
我可以下去嗎?
抑或是有條件的可以去?
謝謝你們!
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