[問題] 訂婚時,男方的雞腿小男孩可以接受奉茶嗎已回收
我是準新郎
最近雙方家長針對訂婚喝茶名單有不同的意見
訂婚需要奉茶,我們家安排10個人去喝茶
人數沒有問題,有問題的是名單
喝茶名單中有一個小男孩,是我的外甥,他也是當天要領雞腿的小男孩
這樣變成「由舅媽向外甥奉茶」
但我媽媽說本來就會有一個小男孩喝茶
她去問了很多家裡辦過喜事的朋友,也都說可以有一個小男孩喝茶
只要新娘端茶給他時,小男孩站起來接茶就好了
但我岳母卻覺得,新娘向晚輩奉茶,會讓親友觀感不好
(我不知道觀感不好在哪裡,不過就是個習俗??是覺得新娘嫁過來會矮人一截嗎??)
所以希望我們家不要排小男孩喝茶,希望可以換一個人
想請問各位有經驗的前輩
1.訂婚喝茶名單裡 可以/不可以 有晚輩??
2.若是雙方各持己見
傳統習俗上,「喝茶名單的安排」應該以男方意見為準還是女方意見為準??
3.安排小男孩喝茶,真的會對女方很失禮嗎??
非常感謝您的解答
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