[問題] 如何阻止壞人進入家中
會成為問題,是因為父母其中一方去世,另一人輕度失智。
父母有子女2人。出嫁的妹妹利慾薰心(已經無可救藥,不贅述),藉機連同其丈夫侵佔
去世者的遺產殆盡,民刑事官司訴訟中。輕度失智的長輩整個狀況外,把頭埋在沙裡逃避
現實。
目前與長輩共住的房子是我名下,出嫁的妹妹常趁我不在家時,對在家的輕度失智長輩說
回娘家要拿她的東西(這只是藉口,實際上如同在我的住處各處搜索、檢查、暗槓--我為
何要平白擔負這種風險),長輩也因為腦袋已經不靈活,毫無思辨力、記憶力也差,就任
由她進門,外勞也無法多說什麼。
結果該人多次依照此模式進門,在各個房間東翻西找--這就算打官司也牽扯不清--最好是
直接把她擋在門外。但問題是,對方總是趁我不在時前來(若看到我在家,就走人)。而
長輩毫無招架之力(其他該人耍失智長輩之處,不贅述--就算耍過長輩,長輩自己過幾分
鐘就忘了,真令親痛仇快),讓我不勝其擾,如同自己陣營後防大開,而同袍又如同癡呆
任由外敵入侵。
輕微失智長輩還不到監護宣告的程度,所以該怎麼辦。
我自己是想不出解法。請大家幫忙想想...
我未婚,沒有其他人力了,該裝的監視器也裝了。但關鍵就是看怎樣不讓失智長輩引狼入
室...
不然,事後用監視器畫面控告,法庭上大概也變成噴口水(因為有些小東西很零碎,有得
拗)有試著勸過長輩了--正因其失智(該人也知道長輩這個弱點),無法理解防範
「壞人」的重要。我好疲憊.......請大家集思廣益想想好方法。
有人說乾脆叫出嫁者一次打包她在娘家的東西帶去夫家(大概只一公里遠)以後別再牽扯
。
但請注意,一來她決不會同意這個讓她無法藉機再搞花樣的釜底抽薪之法;對方非善類,
本來就是要搞鬼,哪會「配合你一勞永逸的想法」;
二來就算你要直接告知對方這麼做,最麻煩的是失智長輩的扯後腿,不讓你實行網友說的
這個釜底抽薪之法,說東西讓她放著又不會怎麼樣--然後她就趁我不在家、長輩卻也腦筋
不清之時,繼續不定時來搜看看有沒有什麼文件、當初的借據之類的。因為有個關鍵:
不管她東西在不在我住處,只要她到門口說要進門,失智長輩就會讓她進門暢行無阻...
這才是讓我防不勝防的居家重大漏洞(當然,她是趁我上班不在家的時候前來;
我回家聽到外勞轉述,只能嘆息--我上班也不能臨時請假回家阻止啊--就算事先警告,
可是只要長輩同意讓她進門,她就不違法,所以她完全不必理睬我說了什麼)。
而我因為諸事繁忙,實在沒空點算清楚多如牛毛的家中物品(因為先前在外求學)
,但失智長輩如同成語「開門揖盜」,讓我心理壓力好大、好疲憊.....
內賊難防,加上關鍵:有輕微失智長輩大開後門...懇請大家指點如何在我這種棘手環境下
看有什麼有效方法可成功擋住內賊....
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