[心得] 吊車尾上榜的幸福
日前有機會和許多上榜者聊天,發現一些有趣的事。
剛放榜的時候,大家都很興奮,也很開心,因為終於了結一樁心願。
但是開始選填志願,就不知不覺產生了焦慮與憂愁。
例如有人即便名次很好,但難以選填台北職缺,感覺心中便充滿遺憾。
這可能是因為家鄉在台北,又是女生所以比較不方便吧。
也有人會說,自己名次不好,在前幾名面前只是一個小人物。
我在心裡暗暗微笑。
親愛的,我們已經從學校畢業許久,已經是出社會的人了。
區別大人物與小人物的並不是那幾分差的距離,而是將來實際作為。
也許,那只是習慣性的自謙吧。
考上後,我發現自己也會貪心。想著,如果名次再好一些,志願就會更好填一些。
但後來就覺得自己很壞,很不知足,如果這樣的我即便考上第一名,也會為了選擇
職缺而斤斤計較吧,很諷刺,選擇越多,越不快樂。
所以我心裡有個狂想,也許最後一名上榜,是最爽快的吧。沒有什麼好選的,老天疼惜
給你一份公職做~每天慶祝都來不及,何來煩惱之有呢?
但其實,要當什麼樣想法的人,自己都可以決定。不論是榜首,吊車尾,尚未上榜者,
都要尊重而看得起自己,才會擁有真正的快樂吧!
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