Re: 有關異國戀情

看板CultureShock作者 (l'Erudit)時間18年前 (2006/07/18 07:52), 編輯推噓5(507)
留言12則, 6人參與, 最新討論串15/23 (看更多)
※ 引述《cloudysky (jen)》之銘言: : 罵我) 男孩子在一個relationship裡面總是會希望自己是可以讓女生依靠的一方 ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ If you always think so, you will never got a white girl, particularly from Europe. : 當一個男生要跟一個講英文(或是別的文)的女生交往時, 如果他自己的英文不是 : 自己的母語的話, 可能也是會多多少少會害怕, 怕自己是不是會在女生面前出糗 ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Indeed. Do you want to know why Taiwanese usually not confident to show off? Remember when we were students at schools of every level, there were really students could show off confidentially. However, the teachers dislike this very much; if you keep quiet, you will be fine; if you show off, you can get something in the next minutes. Years and years past, significant number of people of this nation have lost confidence even to speak their opinions nor to argue for their right. When they are speaking, they watches the listeners' faces; they are trying not to make the listeners unhappy (although the words must not make them very happy...). Language problem, certainly, makes it worse. I don't really think language is really a problem, nevertheless. Have you watched an English film, Love Actually? or a French film, The Russian Dolls. I am sure they will give you some ideas. To say love is not that difficult. However, if you have even never said 'Je t'aime' to a French girl, you cannot just give an excuse of bad French. -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc) ◆ From: 81.111.48.3 ※ 編輯: lerudit 來自: 81.111.48.3 (07/18 08:10) ※ 編輯: lerudit 來自: 81.111.48.3 (07/18 08:13)

07/18 12:47, , 1F
第二段的例子很怪??~.~ 那跟有沒有自信沒關係吧..??
07/18 12:47, 1F

07/18 13:27, , 2F
我也覺得有點怪 -.-
07/18 13:27, 2F

07/18 13:54, , 3F
那是文化差異吧 東方文化講求謙虛
07/18 13:54, 3F

07/18 13:55, , 4F
還有那是confidently不是confidentially
07/18 13:55, 4F

07/18 21:34, , 5F
不過我也不是說所有人啊 XD我也有一位英文普普但交了外뀠
07/18 21:34, 5F

07/18 21:34, , 6F
國女友的台灣朋友 但我只是說我覺得很多時候害怕自己不
07/18 21:34, 6F

07/18 21:35, , 7F
能打入對方的圈子都跟語言還是有點問題 我覺得這還是佔
07/18 21:35, 7F

07/18 21:36, , 8F
滿大多數的吧 自己的淺見啦 XD
07/18 21:36, 8F

07/18 21:45, , 9F
當然如果大家都能像你最後說得一樣有自信的試試看 我們
07/18 21:45, 9F

07/18 21:46, , 10F
也不會在討論這個吧-_-就是因為大部分的人做不到吧我想
07/18 21:46, 10F

07/18 23:21, , 11F
東方人是謙虛...
07/18 23:21, 11F

07/22 20:23, , 12F
第一段不懂,為麼歐洲女孩不喜歡?
07/22 20:23, 12F
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