Re: [請益] 共食

看板CrossStrait作者seednet2 (可)時間14年前 (2012/01/18 19:01)推噓2(2推 0噓 8→)

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既然中國同胞一直在情感打轉一邊說我這樣公筷母匙會歹鬥陣一邊卻也提不出更好的方法正好剛在FB有一個我的美國女性捧遊給我三個解答 1.邀請一個非中國人參加我藉由跟老外解釋規則順便把公筷母匙講給其他中國人聽 2.把大號的公筷母匙打上標籤他說他家有標籤機可以幫我弄 3.身為一個老外他可以很直接說要公筷母匙所以就算他有得罪人傷害了民族情感他都可以有藉口---因為他是老外所以不懂另外我想美國正妹可能是在暗示我邀請他參加除夕夜PARTY 是吧? I lived in Singapore for 4 months, socializing and working with Hong Kong Chinese, and Main Land Chinese too. I understand you dilemma. But there is an easy solution, that I have used myself. Invite a Non-Chinese to your dinner. And in the begin the dinner explaining to the Non-Chinese the Polite way to use Chopsticks. -Public Chopsticks for serving -Private Chopsticks for eating This sets the rules for eating, and politely give you a reason to explain to other Chinese how the rules to eat are at this party Another suggestions for eating I have seen at a Singaporean Chinese Wedding I attend my Host put LARGE CHOPSTICKS for each dish and had a label on the chopticks that said it was a PUBLIC Chopsticks. I have a lable Machine, and you can come bring some chopsticks here to label. I can label them for you it you like. This way you are setting the Eating Manners and not shaming your guests. Plus, depending on the Chinese I do know that they can get offended easily. About how I set the rules. I am very DIRECT and make it clear to people I do not understand all the cultural norms from there culture, and that gives me the freedom to make mistakes without offeniding people. -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc) ◆ From: 90.149.93.29

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