[請益] 大家會為朋友的成就高興嗎?
前些天和一位好朋友吃飯 因為他考上國考了(月薪破八萬) 我很為他開心
(感覺幾乎就等於自己考上了~哈)
於是就請他吃飯 快吃完的時候 他感謝我請他 他說 其實沒幾個人想找他吃飯=.=
他說 大家平時相聚很開心 但是真的其中有人獲得成就的時候
大家通常都會找理由暫時不見面 只有我傻呼呼地還找他吃飯.....
我回想了一下 似乎還有點道理
我之前一個朋友考上國考執照時 約大家也都是說沒時間 最後只有我幫她慶祝
另一位學長拿到獎學金出國時 大家臉書上也是恭喜按讚 但是也沒人出來聚餐
面對朋友的成就時 大家真的會為朋友高興嗎? 會犯點小嫉妒嗎?
還是我朋友太暗黑了.....
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People don't think any more. They feel. How are you feeling?
Do you know, one of the great problems of our age is that
we are governed by people who care more about feelings than thoughts and ideas.
~~~M. Thatcher
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