[閒聊] 跟男同事私下傳賴會跟老公講嗎?
大家好
因緣際會下小妹我轉換了跑道,原本的工作環境都是同性,唯一的男性就是老闆,在這種
工作環境下也做了10幾年,也沒有什麼不喜歡,只是覺得女生比較愛勾心鬥角而已。
在今年有機會轉換新跑道,完全不同領域的工作讓我覺得很有挑戰,除了工作上的事,還
有跟同事之間的相處,其實大致上同事們都很好相處,我也非常慶幸,然後主管也很好,
感覺就是在天堂,不過我卻有一個不知道是不是困擾的困擾......
因為我是新人,同事們都會比較照顧我,有什麼不知道的都有求必應,而且還要五毛給一
塊的大放送。
最近跟ㄧ個男同事比較好,他也已婚,因為座位近所以我常常跟他聊天,然後公事的關係
所以都有彼此的賴,有天我下班回到家,接到他的賴,原本都在談公事,談到最後變成在
喇D賽,開始閒聊起來,聊的還滿久的,賴完突然覺得罪惡感很重,隔天馬上跟老公坦承
這件事,我真的是光明磊落,還叫老公看我們談的內容,老公沒看只淡淡的說:妳自己拿
捏好分寸就好了。
也許那位男同事會覺得沒什麼,但我還是覺得怪怪的,自覺賴的頻率算高,有時候老公在
家我居然會本能的不敢開起來看(這是怎麼了?我根本沒怎樣啊......)
是我想太多了嗎?還是真的要再保持距離?
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看到噓文內容我真的很受傷,我只是純粹想問大家的意見,並沒有精神出軌,而且我也很
愛我老公,我自己覺得不妥的部分也跟老公講了,並沒有隱瞞。我以新人的身份覺得同事
們都對我很好,也是一種好像跟大家交朋友的心態,我也沒有要去刺探那位男同事的隱私
,他跟我話家常我也不好意思不回吧!
我會聽我老公的話拿捏好分寸,工作畢竟只是工作,我的重心還是擺在家庭。
※ 編輯: aminy (111.184.180.169), 06/09/2016 23:10:21
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