[公蟹] 這樣還有救嗎?
以下是代朋友貼的,不是我本人
因為朋友沒上PTT,最近遇到嚴重的夫妻問題
想請教大家的看法
我的星座是: 牡羊(代貼)
與對方的關係: 已婚有子,挽回中
想請問大家的問題是:
結婚後,牡羊女白天工作,晚上帶孩子
跟原生家庭的關係也不好,父母常介入他們的生活
搞得牡羊女壓力很大,心情不好,身體也很疲憊
這時候的牧羊女,很希望巨蟹老公給她安慰
但巨蟹老公自己壓力也很大
家裡沉重的房貸壓力主要是由巨蟹老公負責
加上巨蟹老公的工作不順利,所以心情也不好
巨蟹能給牡羊的安慰很有限,夫妻雙方開始吵架
牧羊女後來無法負荷,辭掉工作,專心帶孩子
夫妻的關係越來越差,吵架時巨蟹會怪牡羊亂花錢
但牡羊覺得她已經很省,錢都是花在孩子身上
而且都是必要的開銷,不是奢侈品
有幾次吵架吵得很嚴重,牡羊陷入歇斯底里
甚至騎車去撞巨蟹的車(二人各有一台機車)
巨蟹當時氣得報警處理,還去登記家暴
事後巨蟹要牡羊去看心理醫生,牡羊沒去
巨蟹就開始冷落牡羊
牡羊事後跟巨蟹道歉,但巨蟹不接受
牡羊想跟巨蟹溝通,但巨蟹目前拒絕溝通
現在雙方還在冷戰,
牡羊很傷心,不知如何挽回
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以上這種情況,請問大家覺得還有救嗎?
巨蟹是不是也受了很大的傷害?心理有陰影跟恐懼感?
如果牡羊要挽回巨蟹,該怎麼做?
謝謝大家
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