[請益] 沒有心動的感覺?
性別:
女
問題類型:
單身太久,找不到心動的感覺
自己個性:
慢熟、獨立
1.問題背景:
母胎單身30年,雖然跟異性相處正常,本身也蠻健談的,但總是對他人沒有特別想進一步
的想法,參加了兩次聯誼活動,聽大家天花亂墜的談論,只覺得好累,之後有人line,雖
然談的不錯,就是不會想進一步認識。
2.目前狀況:
先前有人介紹一位安靜人不錯的人(應該也是母胎單身30餘年的男生),不過相處了一個
月後(其實兩人談的不夠深),對方之後回雖然相處愉快,但沒有心動的感覺,自己覺得
男生是個跟自己很像的人,所以蠻難過兩人無法再持續談下去。
3.我的疑問:
心動到底是什麼感覺?覺得對於慢熟的人很傷,自己都還沒有真正瞭解對方時,就直接被
拒絕。另外,彼此應該談論什麼話題才能真的談到心呢?又如何可以瞭解雙方的價值觀及
合適與否?
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