[請益] 被女生勸退了,想問下一步該怎麼走
性別:男
(男/女) ->發問者性別
問題類型:追女
(個人魅力提昇/認識/追男/追女/情侶相處/分手中(後)/其他)
自己個性:個性比較堅持,跟熟人蠻會聊天的,有時候有點沒自信
(請以20字內敘述自己的個性):
對方個性:在多人面前比較害羞,在熟人面前比較嗨,有點少根筋
(請以20字內敘述對方的個性):
(若是追男追女,請註明雙方如何認識。如同班同學、同事、社團、街頭搭訕......)
1.問題背景:和一個女生變成好朋友已經一段時間了,當初是因為對她告白,女生說先從
朋友當起,然後就莫名的變成很好的好朋友,就在告白後越混越熟,原本以為會朝自己認
為的方向發展下去,就以為當朋友之後,接下來就是男朋友了,已經單獨出去很多次,有
我約她,也有她約我,每天也都會用messenger聊天很長一段時間
2.目前狀況:目前女生算是好幾次在勸退我,就單純只想跟我當好閨蜜的感覺,希望我不
要花太多的時間在她的身上,就還建議我看要不要遠離她一段時間,忘掉喜歡她的感覺,
不然我們可能會當不成朋友,但每一次勸退完,隔天我們又會裝沒事繼續聊天,就好像刻
意忽略這件事情,我們就可以順順利利繼續當好朋友的感覺
3.我的疑問:我也不知道現在該怎麼辦,覺得對她繼續緊追不放不知道會不會不太好,原
本是想說慢慢等她對我有喜歡的感覺,但是又很怕這樣會造成她的困擾,朋友是跟我說乾
脆直接去告白,有就有,沒有就沒有,但又很怕告白之後連朋友都當不成了,現在自己算
是一個以朋友身份賴在她身邊的概念,就只要身邊有她的感覺就好了,但自己也覺得這樣
不太好,但也不知道下一步應該怎麼走,我還是很希望她會喜歡上我,可能要讓她產生心
動的感覺吧...但我也不太知道該怎麼辦...
拜託各位大大幫忙QQ
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