我26y (暫時失業12天)男32y(台g)
我跟我男朋友交往四年多,1259天的日子裡都住在同一個屋簷下,我今天剛提分手,但我
還是很捨不得....還是很喜歡他
我們都知道雙方對結婚沒有共識,拖了四年了
1.對方覺得我花錢觀念不好
2.時常做一些瘋狂的事(ex:該睡覺不睡覺,瘋狂追劇。不是0就是100,沒有自制力)
3.原生家庭生活背景不一樣
1.我覺得我能力越大付出越多(錢)
2.這我真的沒辦法控制自己(我有努力再改進)
3.原生家庭不是我能決定的...
我爸(55y)不工作,從我高中時就時常跟我們伸手要錢,有次他打line給姐姐發現我在姐
的家,當天晚上從彰化衝上台中要錢...那是我剛失業
跟男方說著說著,兩個人都哭了!
事後我還是要求他過來給我抱抱
他會乖乖的過來讓我抱一下
他問我到底想怎樣,一下要那個那個,一下要這個這個...
其實我也不知道,跟他一直沒有達到結婚共識,就這樣繼續耗下去嗎?還是長痛不如短痛
呢?
怎樣達到共識?!
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